A recent article highlights a number of harmful beliefs about sex that are passed around among men in casual conversations, often substituting for formal sex education.
These “street wisdom” myths, fueled by peer pressure and social media, can negatively impact men’s confidence, communication, intimacy, and emotional connections in relationships.
The article outlines five key beliefs men need to urgently unlearn to foster healthier relationships.
- A real man must last long during sex. This myth creates excessive pressure and links masculinity to performance. The article clarifies that intimacy is about emotional safety, mutual understanding, and communication, not duration. It advises men to seek medical advice for frequent early ejaculation but not to use it as a measure of their worth.
- Women don’t enjoy sex like men do. This is a major cause of emotional disconnect, based on the incorrect assumption that women only participate out of obligation. The article emphasizes that studies show women experience desire and pleasure, but often cultural silence prevents them from expressing it. Men who understand this are better equipped to build balanced and respectful relationships.
- Body count determines a man’s value. This belief equates a high number of sexual partners with status or success. In reality, the article argues, this does not reflect maturity, respect, or emotional intelligence. Instead, integrity, accountability, and the ability to connect meaningfully with a partner are what truly matter.
- Foreplay is optional or unnecessary. Often misunderstood or rushed, foreplay is crucial to the sexual and emotional experience for many women. Experts cited in the article note that it builds trust and communication, leading to a more satisfying experience for both partners.
- If you ask questions, it shows you’re inexperienced. The article stresses that assuming all partners have the same preferences is misleading. Asking questions like, “Is this okay?” or “Would you prefer something different?” promotes mutual understanding and respect, which are essential for any healthy relationship. True confidence comes from being open to learning, not from pretending to know everything.
Credit: Guardian Life
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